Understanding your Baby's Needs
	
	 Attachment parenting focuses on the nurturing connection that parents can develop with their children.
 Your baby's need seek maximum skin to skin touching. Ways to achieve that include joint baths and 
"baby-wearing" such as carrying babies in a sling.
Attachment parenting focuses on the nurturing connection that parents can develop with their children.
 Your baby's need seek maximum skin to skin touching. Ways to achieve that include joint baths and 
"baby-wearing" such as carrying babies in a sling.
	
     Co-sleeping is when an infant sleeps in the same room with parents so they can feed and emotionally soothe 
    the child during the night. Sleeping in the same bed with babies is an age old common practice world-wide. 
    
    The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) claims that co-sleeping may increase the risk of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS). However, 
the National Institute of Health disputes the AAP in its article "
Invoking sudden infant death syndrome in cosleeping 
may be misleading. The National Academy of Sciences documents that vaccines can contribute to 
and cause SIDS deaths in infants. 
	A Rescuing Hug
	by Nancy Sheehan
	 Heidi 
and Paul Jackson's twin girls, Brielle and Kyrie, were born October 17, 1995, 
12 weeks ahead of their due date. Standard hospital practice is to place preemie 
twins in separate incubators to reduce the risk of infection. that was done 
for the Jackson girls in the neonatal intensive care unit at the Medical Center 
of Central Massachusetts in Worcester.
Heidi 
and Paul Jackson's twin girls, Brielle and Kyrie, were born October 17, 1995, 
12 weeks ahead of their due date. Standard hospital practice is to place preemie 
twins in separate incubators to reduce the risk of infection. that was done 
for the Jackson girls in the neonatal intensive care unit at the Medical Center 
of Central Massachusetts in Worcester. 
	Kyrie, the larger sister at two pounds, three ounces, quickly began gaining 
weight, and calmly sleeping her newborn days away. But Brielle, who weighed only 
two pounds at birth, couldn't keep up with her. She had breathing and heart-rate 
problems. The oxygen level in her blood was low, and her weight gain was slow.
	
	Suddenly, on November 12, Brielle went into critical condition. She began 
gasping for breath, and her face and stick-thin arms and legs turned bluish-gray. 
Her heart rate was way up, and she got hiccups, a dangerous sign that her body 
was under stress. Her parents watched, terrified that she might die. 
	Nurse Gayle Kasparian tried everything she could think of to stabilize Brielle. 
She suctioned her breathing passages and turned up the oxygen flow to the incubator. 
Still Brielle squirmed and fussed as her oxygen intake plummeted and her heart 
rate soared. 
    
	Then Kasparian remembered something she had heard from a colleague. It was 
a procedure, common in parts of Europe but almost unheard of in this country, 
that called for double-bedding multiple-birth babies, especially preemies.
Kasparian's nurse manager, Susan Fitzback, was away at a conference, and 
the arrangement was unorthodox. But Kasparian decided to take the risk. 
	
	"Let me just try putting Brielle in with her sister to see if that helps," 
she said to the alarmed parents. "I don't know what else to do." 
	The Jacksons quickly gave the go-ahead, and Kasparian slipped the squirming 
baby into the incubator holding the sister she hadn't seen since birth. Then 
Kasparian and the Jacksons watched. 
	 No sooner had the door of the incubator closed then Brielle snuggled up to 
Kyrie - and calmed right down. Within minutes Brielle's blood-oxygen readings 
were the best they had been since she was born. As she dozed, Kyrie wrapped 
her tiny arm around her smaller sibling.
No sooner had the door of the incubator closed then Brielle snuggled up to 
Kyrie - and calmed right down. Within minutes Brielle's blood-oxygen readings 
were the best they had been since she was born. As she dozed, Kyrie wrapped 
her tiny arm around her smaller sibling. 
By coincidence, the conference Fitzback was attending included a presentation 
on double-bedding. This is something I want to see happen at The Medical Center, 
she thought. 
        But it might be hard making the change. On her return she was doing 
rounds when the nurse caring for the twins that morning said, "Sue, take a look 
in that isolette over there." 
	
	
	    "
I can't believe this," Fitzback said. "This is so beautiful." 
	"You mean, we can do it?" asked the nurse.
	"Of course we can," Fitzback replied.
	 
	Today a handful of institutions around the country are adopting double-bedding, 
which seems to reduce the number of hospital days. The practice is growing quickly, 
even though the first scientific studies on it didn't begin until this past January. 
	
But Heidi and Paul Jackson don't need any studies to know that double-bedding 
helped Brielle. She is thriving. In fact, now that the two girls are home, they 
still steep together - and still snuggle. 
 
	Understanding The Continuum Concept
	Jean Liedloff
	Infants whose continuum needs are fulfilled during the early, in-arms 
phase grow up to have greater self-esteem and become more independent than those 
whose cries go unanswered for fear of "spoiling" them or making them too dependent.
	According to Jean Liedloff, the continuum concept is the idea that in order 
to achieve optimal physical, mental and emotional development, human beings 
— especially babies — require the kind of experience to which our species adapted 
during the long process of our evolution. For an infant, these include such 
experiences as...
 
	
	- Constant physical contact with his mother (or another familiar caregiver 
as needed) from birth; 
- Sleeping in his parents' bed, in constant physical contact, until he 
leaves of his own volition (often about two years); 
- Breastfeeding "on cue" — nursing in response to his own body's signals
- Being constantly carried in arms or otherwise in contact with someone, 
usually his mother, and allowed to observe (or nurse, or sleep) while the 
person carrying him goes about his or her business — until the infant begins 
creeping, then crawling on his own impulse, usually at six to eight months
- Having caregivers immediately respond to his signals (squirming, crying, 
etc.), without judgment, displeasure, or invalidation of his needs, yet 
showing no undue concern nor making him the constant center of attention
- Sensing (and fulfilling) his elders' expectations that he is innately 
social and cooperative and has strong self-preservation instincts, and that 
he is welcome and worthy. 
In stark contrast, a baby subjected to modern Western childbirth and child-care 
practices often experiences:
	
	- Traumatic separation from his mother at birth due to medical intervention 
and placement in maternity wards, in physical isolation except for the sound 
of other crying newborns, with the majority of male babies further traumatized 
by medically unnecessary circumcision surgery.
- At home, sleeping alone and isolated, often after "crying himself to sleep 
- Scheduled feeding, with his natural nursing impulses often ignored or "pacified"
- Being excluded and separated from normal adult activities, relegated 
for hours on end to a nursery, crib or playpen where he is inadequately 
stimulated by toys and other inanimate objects; 
- Caregivers often ignoring, discouraging, belittling or even punishing 
him when he cries or otherwise signals his needs; or else responding with 
excessive concern and anxiety, making him the center of attention; 
- Sensing (and conforming to) his caregivers' expectations that he is 
incapable of self-preservation, is innately antisocial, and cannot learn 
correct behavior without strict controls, threats and a variety of manipulative 
"parenting techniques" that undermine his exquisitely evolved learning process.
Evolution has not prepared the human infant for this kind of experience. He 
cannot comprehend why his desperate cries for the fulfillment of his innate 
expectations go unanswered, and he develops a sense of wrongness and shame about 
himself and his desires. If, however, his continuum expectations are fulfilled 
— precisely at first, with more variation possible as he matures — he will exhibit 
a natural state of self-assuredness, well-being and joy.
	 
	A Baby Cries: How Should Parents Respond?
	
	 In Suzanne Arms' book
Immaculate Deception II, she explains how in the 1970s Dr. T. Berry Brazelton 
studied newborns to see whether they could feel hopeless or depressed. In the 
following quote from page 186, Arms tells of a study that Dr. Brazelton did 
in which he videotaped babies crying in order to get the attention of their 
moms, and, eventually, when this failed, their descent into hopelessness.
In Suzanne Arms' book
Immaculate Deception II, she explains how in the 1970s Dr. T. Berry Brazelton 
studied newborns to see whether they could feel hopeless or depressed. In the 
following quote from page 186, Arms tells of a study that Dr. Brazelton did 
in which he videotaped babies crying in order to get the attention of their 
moms, and, eventually, when this failed, their descent into hopelessness.
 
	In a heartrending series of videotaped sessions, each baby can be seen crying 
to elicit a response from its mother and, failing to do so, working even harder. 
After a number a minutes of making all kinds of faces and trying to make eye 
contact, each baby finally reaches its level of tolerance and begins to look 
away from the mother, finding it too difficult to continue making an effort 
with no response. The baby eventually turns it sic face away from its mother's 
face. Then it turns toward the mother again and tries to rouse a response. Each 
time it turns away for longer and longer periods. Finally, each baby slumps 
down, drops its head, and shows all the signs hopelessness.
	Immediate response to a baby's cry went unquestioned for thousands of years 
until recent times. In our culture, we assume that crying is normal and unavoidable 
for babies. Yet in natural societies where babies are carried close to the care-giver 
much of the day and night for the first several months, such crying is rare. 
In contrast to what many in our society would expect, babies cared for in this 
way show self-sufficiency sooner than do babies not receiving such care. 
	In fact, research on early childhood experiences consistently shows that 
children who have enjoyed the most loving care in infancy become the most secure 
and loving adults, while those babies who have been forced into submissive behavior 
build up feelings of resentment and anger that may well be expressed later in 
harmful ways. In spite of this research, most arguments for ignoring crying 
are based on fears of "spoiling" the baby.
	The more babies are held, the less they cry
	
	 Studies have shown that the more babies are held, the less they cry and 
fuss. In indigenous cultures where baby-wearing is the norm, babies often cry 
for only a few minutes a day – in contrast to Western babies, who often cry 
for hours each day. Crying is exhausting for both the baby and his parents, 
and may cause long-term damage as the baby’s developing brain is continually 
flooded with stress hormones.
Studies have shown that the more babies are held, the less they cry and 
fuss. In indigenous cultures where baby-wearing is the norm, babies often cry 
for only a few minutes a day – in contrast to Western babies, who often cry 
for hours each day. Crying is exhausting for both the baby and his parents, 
and may cause long-term damage as the baby’s developing brain is continually 
flooded with stress hormones. 
		
			Babies who do not need to spend their energy 
on crying are calmly observing and actively learning about their environment. 
Baby-wearing is especially useful for colicky or "high need" babies, who are 
far happier being worn, but placid, content babies and children will also benefit 
greatly from the warmth and security of being held close.
	Growing Healthy Kids: Calming the Cry of Colic
	Jen Allbritton, CN
	The elusive infant condition called colic has perplexed parents and health 
professionals alike for many years. The seemingly endless crying spells, sleep 
loss and worry leads to stress and anxiety for all. Each baby is unique and 
is affected by a myriad of factors, but all respond in their own ways. Nevertheless, 
current research and the principles set forth by Weston A. Price give parents 
the best chance of maximizing their wee one's happiness and preventing excessive 
toe-curling scream sessions. 
	Colic - What We Know
	Crying is baby-communication and has many possible drivers; crying babies 
could be hungry, cold, wet, under-stimulated, over-stimulated, bored, in pain, 
sick, moody or anything else under the sun. It often takes some trial and error 
to figure out what will soothe a baby. When crying becomes loud and persistent, 
when soothing efforts are fruitless, and when potential physical conditions 
have been ruled out, the doctor will generally give a diagnosis of colic,1 which 
means, "We have no idea why your baby will not stop crying!" How frustrating!
	 The average infant cries between two and three hours a day. The commonly 
accepted clinical definition of colic is the "rule of three": crying for more 
than three hours per day, for more than three days per week, and for more than 
three weeks in an infant that is well-fed and otherwise healthy. However, when 
a baby is in the throws of a high-pitched crying-fit, five minutes can feel 
like three hours. Some people are just better able to tolerate the noise and 
feelings of helplessness than others. This is what makes the term colic, or 
even excessive crying, so subjective. A Brazilian study found that as many as 
80 percent of mothers believed their infants had colic; however, using the definition 
above, only 16.3 percent actually had the condition. Thus, as with many things, 
"excessive crying" really is in the eye--or ear--of the beholder.
The average infant cries between two and three hours a day. The commonly 
accepted clinical definition of colic is the "rule of three": crying for more 
than three hours per day, for more than three days per week, and for more than 
three weeks in an infant that is well-fed and otherwise healthy. However, when 
a baby is in the throws of a high-pitched crying-fit, five minutes can feel 
like three hours. Some people are just better able to tolerate the noise and 
feelings of helplessness than others. This is what makes the term colic, or 
even excessive crying, so subjective. A Brazilian study found that as many as 
80 percent of mothers believed their infants had colic; however, using the definition 
above, only 16.3 percent actually had the condition. Thus, as with many things, 
"excessive crying" really is in the eye--or ear--of the beholder. 
	Ultimately, science doesn't know much about colic, but there are many gimmicky 
"colic cure" sale pitches to make your wallet burst into more tears than your 
child. Nevertheless, there are a number of contributing factors that if remedied 
may improve the situation. These issues may or may not be directly involved 
in the cause of colic, but they are all things that should be evaluated by every 
parent. It all fits into the realm of learning about your unique bundle of joy 
and encouraging his or her best possible health.
	Treating Colic in Infants
	Sheilagh King 
	Colic can be very trying for both parents and baby. It can often result in 
endless sleepless night and midnight drives around the neighborhood in an attempt 
to comfort a distressed baby. 
	Homeopathy is a natural system of medicine in which the remedies that are 
used stimulate the body’s own healing powers. It is concerned with treating 
the whole person—not only the disease. For this reason, people with the same 
problem may often be treated with different remedies. The homeopathic alternative 
to treating infants' colic and children's digestive problems is an individually 
chosen homeopathic medicine. When homeopathy is used by a skilled practitioner 
and the case is individualized according to the patient’s history and physical exam, it is safe and can 
help even those stubborn cases of infant colic. 
	The following are brief descriptions of some of the more commonly used homeopathic 
remedies for colic:
- BRYONIA is for the infant who is irritable and does not want to be carried. 
He is worse from movement and touch with a tendency toward constipation.
- CHAMOMILLA is for the "impossible cranky irritable" baby who moves about 
in agony. He cries one minute for something and then pushes it away the 
next. Both baby and parents are miserable. He is better from being carried. 
One notable feature is that one cheek is red and the other is pale. 
- COLOCYNTHIS should be considered for severe colic. The baby screams 
with gas pains and is doubled over. The pain is better with firm pressure 
on the tummy. 
- MAGNESIA PHOSPHORICA is used when relief is brought on by gentle abdominal 
pressure. The baby also feels better with warmth on the belly. 
- PULSATILLA is for the affectionate baby who is irritable and desires 
sympathy and attention; although they may be irritable from the pain they 
experience, they are still basically friendly. 
Some people theorize that the reason for colic is that the infant is allergic 
to milk or to some other food. The homeopathic view of food allergies is basically 
that the food is not "the problem." Rather, it is the individual's underlying 
state of health. The disease process produces poor assimilation and utilization 
of the food, which then ultimately creates symptoms. Homeopaths have found that 
the homeopathic medicines are effective in re-establishing health and thereby 
reducing food allergies.
	Homeopathic medicines have wide 
applications for pediatric complaints and 
it is usually worthwhile seeking out safe, effective alternatives to pediatric 
problems first. Homeopathic medicines may not only help to improve the health 
of infants and children, but will probably also help them to become healthy adults.
	 
	Dispelling the Fear of Spoiling - Babies, like food, only spoil when left alone
	 Dr. Bill and Martha Sears 
	Once upon a time parents were taught that holding their baby a lot or responding 
too quickly to an infant’s cries would result in a clingy, dependent child. 
Fortunately, both experience and research have shown these beliefs are unfounded. 
Babies cry to communicate with their caregivers. In fact, crying is one of the 
only ways infants can express their needs. And the quality of response a baby 
receives from the adults he depends on directly affects his social and emotional 
development. Researchers studied two groups of mother-infant 
pairs. Group 1 mothers were nurturing and tuned-in to their infants’ cues and needs. When their 
babies cried, these mothers responded quickly and lovingly. Group 2 mothers, 
fearful of spoiling their babies and being manipulated, gave more restrained 
responses. Mothers in this group put their infants on a schedule and responded 
less intuitively and nurturantly to their child’s cues. 
	William and Martha Sears, a pediatrician and a registered nurse respectively, 
team up with two of their doctor sons to update their 1993 guide to "attachment 
parenting." Advocating a "high-touch style of parenting to balance the high-tech 
life of the new millennium," the authors teach new parents how to bond with 
their babies through seven fundamental behaviors, including breastfeeding, "babywearing" 
and setting proper boundaries. When parents keep close to their babies by bringing 
them into bed at night and picking them up when they cry, the infants develop 
better, the authors argue; rather than becoming spoiled, they become more healthy 
and independent. 
	The Importance of the In-Arms Phase
	Jean Liedlof 
	
	 In the two and a half years during which I lived among Stone Age Indians 
in the South American jungle (not all at once, but on five separate expeditions 
with a lot of time between them for reflection), I came to see that our human 
nature is not what we have been brought up to
believe it is. Babies of the Yequana tribe, far from needing peace and quiet 
to go to sleep, snoozed blissfully whenever they were tired, while the men, 
women, or children carrying them danced, ran, walked, shouted, or paddled canoes. 
Toddlers played together without fighting or arguing, and they obeyed their 
elders instantly and willingly.
In the two and a half years during which I lived among Stone Age Indians 
in the South American jungle (not all at once, but on five separate expeditions 
with a lot of time between them for reflection), I came to see that our human 
nature is not what we have been brought up to
believe it is. Babies of the Yequana tribe, far from needing peace and quiet 
to go to sleep, snoozed blissfully whenever they were tired, while the men, 
women, or children carrying them danced, ran, walked, shouted, or paddled canoes. 
Toddlers played together without fighting or arguing, and they obeyed their 
elders instantly and willingly. 
	The notion of punishing a child had apparently never occurred to these people, 
nor did their behavior show anything that could truly be called permissiveness. 
No child would have dreamed of inconveniencing, interrupting, or being waited 
on by an adult. And by the age of four, children were  
 contributing more to the 
work force in their family than they were costing others.
contributing more to the 
work force in their family than they were costing others. 
	Babes in arms almost never cried and, fascinatingly, did not wave their arms, 
kick, arch their backs, or flex their hands and feet. They sat quietly in their 
slings or slept on someone's hip — exploding the myth that babies need to flex 
to "exercise." They also did not throw up unless extremely ill and did not suffer 
from colic. When startled during the first months of crawling and walking, they 
did not expect anyone to go to them but rather went on their own to their mother 
or other caretakers for the measure of reassurance needed before resuming their 
explorations. Without supervision, even the smallest tots rarely hurt themselves
	Babies Need Their Mothers Beside Them
	James J. McKenna, Ph.D. 
	Throughout human history, breast-feeding mothers sleeping alongside their 
infants constituted a marvelously adaptive system in which both the mothers' 
and infants' sleep physiology and health were connected in beneficial ways. 
By sleeping next to its mother, the infant receives protection, warmth, emotional 
reassurance, and breast milk - in just the forms and quantities that nature intended.
	This sleeping arrangement permits mothers (and fathers) to respond quickly to 
the infant if it cries, chokes, or needs its nasal passages cleared, its body 
cooled, warmed, caressed, rocked or held. This arrangement thus helps to regulate 
the infant's breathing, sleep state, arousal patterns, heart rates and body 
temperature. The mother's proximity also stimulates the infant to feed more 
frequently, thus receiving more antibodies to fight
	 disease. The increased nipple contact also causes changes in the mother's 
hormone levels that help to prevent a new pregnancy before the infant is ready 
to be weaned. In this way, the infant regulates its mother's biology, too; increased 
breast-feeding blocks ovulation, which helps to ensure that pregnancies will 
not ordinarily occur until the mother's body is able to restore the fat and 
iron reserves needed for optimal maternal health.
disease. The increased nipple contact also causes changes in the mother's 
hormone levels that help to prevent a new pregnancy before the infant is ready 
to be weaned. In this way, the infant regulates its mother's biology, too; increased 
breast-feeding blocks ovulation, which helps to ensure that pregnancies will 
not ordinarily occur until the mother's body is able to restore the fat and 
iron reserves needed for optimal maternal health. 
It is a curious fact that in Western societies the practice of mothers, fathers 
and infants sleeping together came to be thought of as strange, unhealthy and 
dangerous. Western parents are taught that "co-sleeping" will make the infant 
too dependent on them, or risk accidental suffocation. Such views are not supported 
by human experience worldwide, however, where for perhaps millions of years, 
infants as a matter of course slept next to at least one caregiver, usually 
the mother, in order to survive. At some point in recent history, infant separateness 
with low parental contact during the night came to be advocated by child care 
specialists, while infant-parent interdependence with high parental contact 
came to be discouraged. In fact, the few psychological studies which are available 
suggest that children who have "co-slept" in a loving and safe environment become 
better adjusted adults than those who were encouraged to sleep without parental 
contact or reassurance. 
	Sleep Deprived Baby? Try Sunlight
	For many parents, getting their baby to sleep at night can become a daunting 
task. Often times it seems that nothing will help; however, researchers may 
have discovered a natural remedy: Sunlight. According to a study, babies exposed 
to twice as much light during the day (between noon and 4 pm) became better 
sleepers at night. Parents are advised to take their babies out in sunlight. 
The sun is an amazing healing source that is absolutely underappreciated in 
our current culture.
	Sweet Dreams : A Pediatrician's Secrets for Baby's Good Night's Sleep
	Paul M. Fleiss M.D.
	Most new parents quickly and sadly discover the difficulty of getting a child 
first to go to sleep, and then to sleep throughout the night. Dr. Fleiss, a 
noted family pediatrician for more than 30 years, shares his secrets for discovering 
a child's natural sleep patterns, developing positive bedtime rituals, nutritional 
and lifestyle aids to sleep, and how co-sleeping affects normal growth and development.
	Rebecca from University Place, WA United States: "I was looking 
for a book that would help me cope with my 2-year-old's difficulty falling asleep 
at night. Unlike most people, I just wasn't comfortable with the "cry-it-out" 
methods that are so popular now and that method was completely ineffective with 
my daughter. This book was a lifesaver for me because Dr. Fleiss is the first 
author who writes about sleep issues with a gentle loving approach that was 
right for us. After only one night, my daughter's bedtime is MUCH better for 
us all. This was a great book!" 
	Note from Shirley:"I 'd like to express my deep gratitude 
to Dr. Paul Fleiss, who was my handicapped son 's 
pediatrician for over 15 years and took wonderful care of my little angel."
	 
	
	Can you Teach your Baby to Read?
	Dr. Robert Titzer, Ph.D. "Babies as young as three or four 
months old can be taught to read. We have babies who by nine months 
of age, who can read many words." In more than 15 years of teaching, Dr. Titzer 
has worked extensively in researching and developing a method that takes advantage 
of your baby's natural learning skills. He believes that babies can learn to 
read as soon as they have visual tracking with their eyes. That's somewhere 
around 2-3 months old. Dr. Titzer says it's up to parents to work with their 
baby at home. He doesn't believe in waiting to let teachers at school do the 
work- because about 90-percent of brain development happens in the first five 
years of life. 
In the first year, your baby’s brain triples in weight. By the end of the 
second, your toddler’s brain weighs three quarters that of an adult’s. The brain’s 
activity increases with its weight. The metabolism of a baby’s brain, as measured 
by
how much blood sugar it uses, builds steadily from birth until the age of 
3. At that point, your child’s brain is more than twice as active as yours, 
and it will remain so until he or she reaches puberty. All that internal energy 
and growth is matched by the toddler’s external activities: exploring the world, 
reaching out for objects, gurgling and practicing sounds (the building blocks 
of language). 
The essence of the matter is to keep the process simple so that the baby 
can follow it, and to keep it enjoyable so that the baby follows it out of self-interest. 
If you are trying to force lessons into your tiny baby, then you are simply 
digging your way for a permanent fear and hatred of your kid towards reading. 
You don't have an option to force, you must make the sessions fun. It must be 
in an environment that the baby wants to live and relive in. The idea is that 
after your baby goes through one or a few of reading sessions, the baby will 
start looking out for the next reading session out of own. This can happen only 
if the reading session is an enjoyable experience. The best is to identify a 
session of around 30-40 minutes every day at a fixed time, so that it becomes 
a routine for the baby. The time can be more or less depending on the age and 
health of the baby. 
	
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	The Nurturing Father
	James Kimmel, Ph.D.
	
	 Studies of groups of people living outside civilization have indicated that 
it is rare for children to have fathers who are absent or who are not
nurturing. In hunter-gatherer societies, both mother and father, as well 
as other male and female members of the group, are usually described by anthropologists 
as indulgent of, and nurturing toward, all children. Despite the commonly held 
belief in Western civilization that the individual is primarily governed in 
his behavior by selfish motives and instincts, that "man is a beast to man", 
it is much more probable that our prehistoric ancestors were individuals 
who cared for, and about, each other. The idea that the human individual is 
basically selfish and uncaring of others, and that to become socialized, he 
must repress and control his self-serving impulses, ignores the human nurturing 
necessity and its powerful influence on individual development and group living.
Studies of groups of people living outside civilization have indicated that 
it is rare for children to have fathers who are absent or who are not
nurturing. In hunter-gatherer societies, both mother and father, as well 
as other male and female members of the group, are usually described by anthropologists 
as indulgent of, and nurturing toward, all children. Despite the commonly held 
belief in Western civilization that the individual is primarily governed in 
his behavior by selfish motives and instincts, that "man is a beast to man", 
it is much more probable that our prehistoric ancestors were individuals 
who cared for, and about, each other. The idea that the human individual is 
basically selfish and uncaring of others, and that to become socialized, he 
must repress and control his self-serving impulses, ignores the human nurturing 
necessity and its powerful influence on individual development and group living.
	Both male and female evolved to continue their development after birth in 
relation to a nurturing mother. The natural nurturing process does more than 
keep infants alive. It initiates them into a way of living in which there is 
someone who cares for and about them. Nurtured children learn that security 
and satisfaction are found in attachment to another human. For these reasons, 
sociability and socialization are natural outcomes of appropriate mothering. 
Our requirement of mothering is the root of our connection to each other. The 
mother in her attachment and commitment to her child establishes that human 
life is about affirming the life of another as well as oneself.
	The Family Bed
	For most of human history, babies have slept with their mothers. Except in 
Western, industrialized nations, this is still accepted as the natural thing 
to do. But most parents in North America today have been raised on the cultural 
ideal of an angelic baby sleeping through the night, alone, in an immaculately 
decorated nursery. 
	It turns out that "ideal" isn't so easy to achieve. We are told that our 
babies need to learn to be "independent" and to go to sleep on their own. And 
so, on the advice of books, grandparents, friends, and "sleep-training" programs, 
babies cry themselves to sleep, night after heart wrenching night.
As soon as they can climb out of the crib, they make it clear that they 
want to be with mommy and daddy. Some exhibit such persistence that the exhausted 
parents must allow their toddler into their bed -- or resort to such desperate 
measures as netting over the crib, locking the baby's bedroom door, or responding 
to night-time fears with threats and spankings. Bedtime becomes a battleground.
	What is Attachment Parenting?
	
	 
 
	 It starts with nursing your babies carrying them close to your body in a 
sling or carrier. It continues with responding immediately to your child's cries 
and allowing for child-led weaning. The family bed is a big part of attachment 
parenting.
It starts with nursing your babies carrying them close to your body in a 
sling or carrier. It continues with responding immediately to your child's cries 
and allowing for child-led weaning. The family bed is a big part of attachment 
parenting. 
	Patty Burke -"I can't remember how old our son was 
when we discovered that there was a name for the method of parenting that my 
husband and I had adopted. We just "knew" not to let him cry himself to sleep, 
to share sleep with him, to let him breastfeed as he needed to, to hold him 
and wear him and love him 24 hours a day. And then I discovered Katie's book 
and she reinforced all of our instincts! Whenever I have doubts (sometimes put 
upon me by society), all I have to do is re-read certain chapters or pages and 
it all comes clear to me again: my husband and I are the experts when it comes 
to our son. We should and will follow our instincts.Yes, before reading this 
book, we had all the mainstream purchases: crib, swing, baby bucket, baby bouncer 
seat, stroller. And we did use those items a few times, but not to the extreme 
that we've seen other parents, leaving baby alone for long periods of time. 
Our son has grown into a happy and healthy toddler and we owe a lot of it to 
being so Attached!"
	 J. Prescott, Ph.D. - "The single most important child rearing 
practice to be adopted for the development of emotional and social healthy infants 
and children is to carry the newborn/infant on the body of the mother/caretaker 
all day long..." 
	 
		
Researchers from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) have 
found that 15 brands of powdered infant formula are
contaminated with perchlorate, a rocket fuel component detected in drinking 
water in 28 states and territories. The two most contaminated brands, made from 
cow’s milk, accounted for 87 percent of the U.S. powdered formula market in 
2000, the scientists said. The CDC scientists did not identify the formula brands 
they tested. The CDC findings, published in the March 2009 edition of the Journal 
of Exposure Science and Environmental Epidemiology, raise new concerns about 
perchlorate pollution, a legacy of Cold War rocket and missile tests. Studies 
have established that the chemical is a potent thyroid toxin that may interfere 
with fetal and infant brain development. The new CDCstudy provides some of the strongest evidence yet that a legally enforceable 
safe drinking water level for perchlorate should be a priority for the Obama 
administration. Rocket Fuel Found In Most Powdered Infant Formula.
	Advantages of a Breast fed Infant
	 There was a time when doctors thought that infant formula was superior to 
breast milk. They were wrong about that. Mothers were told to "not spoil their 
babies and to let them cry". Later, doctors realized that infants wither and 
die without human touch. What about all those Soviet children that were left 
on their own, crying in their cribs without proper attention? Now these children, 
who were adopted into this country have all sorts of horrendous emotional problems 
and learning disabilities. Babies need nurturing and it is not spoiling them 
to provide it. Spoiling means "ruining" and you cannot ruin a child with love 
and affection, you ruin him by abandoning him and ignoring his needs.
There was a time when doctors thought that infant formula was superior to 
breast milk. They were wrong about that. Mothers were told to "not spoil their 
babies and to let them cry". Later, doctors realized that infants wither and 
die without human touch. What about all those Soviet children that were left 
on their own, crying in their cribs without proper attention? Now these children, 
who were adopted into this country have all sorts of horrendous emotional problems 
and learning disabilities. Babies need nurturing and it is not spoiling them 
to provide it. Spoiling means "ruining" and you cannot ruin a child with love 
and affection, you ruin him by abandoning him and ignoring his needs.
	Dr Robert Mendelsohn, M.D.- "The bottle fed human baby is 
substantially more likely to suffer a whole nightmare of illnesses: diarrhea, 
colic, gastrointestinal and respiratory infections, meningitis, asthma, hives, 
other allergies, pneumonia, eczema, obesity, hypertension, atherosclerosis, 
dermatitis, growth retardation, hypocalcemic tetany, neonatal hypothyroidism, 
necrotizing enterocolitis, and sudden infant death syndrome. From a scientific, 
biological standpoint, formula feeding cannot be considered an acceptable alternative 
to breastfeeding, especially since more than ninety-nine percent of new mothers 
are perfectly capable of doing it. 
Even premature infants should get breast milk. When I had my pediatric training 
more than twenty-five years ago, I was strongly (and thankfully) influenced 
by one of the great nurses in the field of premature babies, Evelyn Lundeen. 
Miss Lundeen not only encouraged but insisted that mothers supply breast milk 
to their premies even to those who weighed only two pounds. I can remember watching 
husbands deliver the bottles of milk their wives had pumped. There's no doubt 
in my mind that the premature infant fed breast milk does much better than the 
premature infant fed formula In my own practice I have discharged from the hospital 
many babies who weighed less than five pounds, all breastfed, of course, since 
now I won't accept a child as a patient unless the mother is determined to breastfeed."
	
	The Deadly Influence of Infant Formula in America
	While the dangers of formula feeding aren’t something you’re likely 				
to hear in your doctor’s office, the conclusions can be derived 				
through an examination of the available scientific research on 				
infant mortality in the United States and across the world. There 				
are studies showing artificial feeding’s impact on overall infant 				
death rates in both developing and undeveloped countries. While 				
studies offering comparative death rates are not available for 				
industrialized regions, there are numerous studies providing 				
comparative occurrence rates for many illnesses and disorders in 				
the United States and other industrialized nations. Many more 				
reports are available extolling superior survival rates and 				
decreased illness rates among breastfed infants, but only those 				
with solid numbers are useful here. We can assemble the statistics 				
from these studies to build a firm picture of the ratio of infant 				
deaths for U.S. formula-fed babies against those who are breastfed.
	
The FDA found melamine and cyanuric acid, a related chemical, in samples of 
baby formula made by major U.S. manufacturers . November 28, 2008 
- Melamine can cause kidney and bladder stones and, in worst cases, kidney failure 
and death. If melamine and cyanuric acid combine, they can form round yellow 
crystals that can also damage kidneys and destroy renal function. Melamine was 
found in Good Start Supreme Infant Formula With Iron made by Nestle, and cyanuric 
acid was detected in Enfamil Lipil With Iron infant formula powder made by Mead Johnson.
	If Breastfeeding is not possible: Healthy Alternative to Conventional Infant Formula
	Mary G. Enig, PhD 
	Make no mistake: the best food for baby is breastmilk from a healthy mother. 
However, many situations call out for a good substitute: adopted and orphaned 
babies, babies born to mothers with serious health problems, and babies whose 
mothers do not have enough milk (a situation that does happen occasionally) 
deserve to receive something better than commercial formula. The following questions 
have been compiled by the authors over a period of several years and should 
cover most situations encountered by parents giving homemade formula to their babies.
Healthier Baby Formulas - For the infant to remain as healthy as possible, 
he must obtain a proper balance of all the essential fats, which is difficult 
to impossible, especially when you are changing mother nature and trying to 
create a formula. 
	Non-Breast Milk In Infancy Increases Asthma Risk
	Introducing milk other than breast milk to infants younger than 4 months 
old increases the risk of asthma and atopy (a predisposition to certain allergies). 
In the first study of its kind, the investigators followed over two thousand 
children from before birth through their  
 6th birthday, questioning their parents 
regarding various manifestations of asthma and allergy. Children who were fed 
milk other than breast milk before 4 months of age experienced higher rates 
of all indicators of asthma and allergy, the report indicates. Such children 
were 25% more likely to be diagnosed with allergy and 30% more likely to have 
a positive skin test for allergies than were children who received only breast 
milk during their early months. The total duration of exclusive breastfeeding 
was less important, though longer breastfeeding was associated with less asthma 
and allergy. Because the introduction of non-breast milk was more closely associated 
with asthma and atopy than the duration of breastfeeding, the investigators 
postulate that the exclusion of potentially allergy-causing components in milk 
other than breast milk may account for the protective effect. British Medical 
Journal September 25, 1999;319:815-819.
6th birthday, questioning their parents 
regarding various manifestations of asthma and allergy. Children who were fed 
milk other than breast milk before 4 months of age experienced higher rates 
of all indicators of asthma and allergy, the report indicates. Such children 
were 25% more likely to be diagnosed with allergy and 30% more likely to have 
a positive skin test for allergies than were children who received only breast 
milk during their early months. The total duration of exclusive breastfeeding 
was less important, though longer breastfeeding was associated with less asthma 
and allergy. Because the introduction of non-breast milk was more closely associated 
with asthma and atopy than the duration of breastfeeding, the investigators 
postulate that the exclusion of potentially allergy-causing components in milk 
other than breast milk may account for the protective effect. British Medical 
Journal September 25, 1999;319:815-819. 
	Cow Milk and Soy Milk Allergy
Milk allergy occurs when the child's immune system mistakenly sees the milk 
protein as dangerous and tries to fight it off. This starts an allergic reaction, 
which can cause an infant to be fussy and irritable, and cause an upset stomach 
and other symptoms. Most children who are allergic to cow's milk may tolerate 
goat or sheep's milk (not always) or sour milk (buttermilk). A great number 
of babies are also allergic to the protein in
soy milk. Infants who are breastfed have 
a lower risk of developing a milk allergy than infants who are formula fed. 
Although goat milk is rich in fat, it must be used with caution in infant 
feeding as it lacks folic acid and is low in vitamin B12, both of which are 
essential to the growth and development of the infant.
	 
	Beware of Chemically Treated Mattresses
	Jeanee Andrewartha
	Babies are susceptible to the chemicals in new mattresses and SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome) 
has been linked to the formation of toxic 
gases from chemically treated mattresses. These chemicals have been found 
in high concentrations in the livers of babies who have died. A whole new 
meaning to ‘cot death’; where the cot actually kills the baby. 
	If you think the story ends there well unfortunately much of the bedding 
sold is treated with synthetic antibacterial/antifungal chemicals. The manufacturers 
claim that they are safe because they meet the EPA standards, but for those 
of you who know what goes into our food, those standards do not prove that 
the product is safe. The active ingredients of these chemicals are not revealed 
but protected by patents. The consumer is not protected only the product 
is. Certified organic cotton, can be bought that has not been treated, though 
it would be best to check first with the manufacturer about whether the 
fabric has been treated with synthetic chemicals in the dying process.
	Cotton is one of the most sprayed crops in the world. It take up approximately 
0.5% of agricultural land, but over 25% of pesticides go into its production. 
Residues are left in the fabric, which is then treated with toxic dyes. 
That is why when you buy a new garment, the manufacturer recommends you 
wash it before you wear it. However, washing will only remove some of the 
chemicals. So if you don’t want chemicals to leach into your body through 
your skin or leach into the waterways or soils and back into the food, choose 
certified organic cotton clothes and bedding. Limit your exposure to electrical 
devices, especially in the bedroom and get a good night sleep and you will 
feel better for it. Jeanee Andrewartha lives in Australia with her husband 
and 7 home shooled children.
	Kathy Gibbons Ph.D - "Picture your future child standing 
in her new white crib, contentedly gnawing on the bars. You'd never want 
her to ingest pesticides or formaldehyde; however, most conventional paints 
and finishes, even those used on baby furniture, contain such toxic chemicals. 
Even if your baby never chews the furniture, it can off-gas dangerous fumes 
that she'll inhale for months and sometimes years."
	How fish oil may have saved babies' lives
	Like most babies with his medical condition, Austin DuPonte of 
Hudson was not expected to live long - He was born prematurely 
and developed intestinal problems so severe that surgeries left him unable 
to absorb enough nourishment. Babies with bowel troubles can be fed intravenously, 
but most quickly develop liver problems. Without a costly liver transplant, 
and sometimes even with one, these children usually don't make it to their 
first birthday. But over the last two years, a simple finding made by doctors 
at Children's Hospital Boston has apparently saved the life of Austin and 
15 other babies. It's long been known that the intravenous fluid that kept 
the babies alive -- called total parenteral nutrition -- was also destroying 
their livers. The Children's doctors, led by Dr. Mark Puder, figured out 
why total parenteral nutrition seemed to be causing these problems and how 
to fix it. They swapped the IV feedings, giving the babies 
	fluids with fish oils, known as omega-3's, instead of the standard plant oils, or omega-6. 
Within weeks, the patients' livers began to rebound, and they no longer 
needed transplants.
	 
	What makes a Baby Susceptible to Allergies?
	Soy-based formula or goat's milk formula are not recommended for allergic 
or potentially allergic infants.
	Your baby may inherit the tendency to develop allergies, if you, your 
partner, or any of your family suffers from eczema, hayfever or 
hives, allergic rhinitis, persistent cough, constant runny nose, asthma and food allergies
(especially allergy to dairy foods, eggs, wheat, soy, peanuts, nuts, fish 
and shellfish), or recurrent ear infections. 
	Several studies have shown that breastfeeding helps to reduce the chance 
of developing allergies when compared to feeding with standard milk or soy-based 
formulas. However, this advantage is dependent on your diet. The same issues 
as apply as in pregnancy, but again, it is important that in avoiding allergens 
you don't compromise your own diet. If breastfeeding is not possible or 
if a supplement to breast milk is desired, use a hypoallergenic formula (ask 
your allergy specialist for advice on this).
	Nutrition for Children and Babies
	 There are many serious consequences of generation after generation having diets that are
deficient in an element essential for normal development of the nervous 
system. In 1996, Laura J. Stevens, of the Department of Foods and Nutrition, 
Purdue University, and co-investigators published an extremely important 
paper in Physiology and Behavior. The researchers found that boys with lower 
levels of omega-3 fatty acids 
in their blood showed more problems with behavior, learning, and health 
than those with higher levels of total omega-3 fatty acids. Here, you'll 
also learn the importance of enzymes and of bee pollen which is often referred to as nature's most 
complete food.
	
	Importance of Probiotics
	Probiotics administered during pregnancy and lactation appears to promote the immune 
system protective potential of breast-feeding. The probiotics also protect 
infants against eczema during the first two years. There is a growing incidence 
of allergic diseases in the Western world and researchers acknowledge the 
need to offer primary protection to reverse the trend. The ideal source 
of infant nutrition to provide protection from these diseases is breast-milk. 
Its role, however, is elusive. Pediatricians in Finland undertook a double-blind, 
placebo controlled study to determine the potential for protection against 
allergic diseases by administering probiotics. Mothers who received probiotics 
during pregnancy and lactation improved their anti-inflammatory transforming 
growth TGF in their milk. In addition, it was shown that the 
	risk of developing 
eczema during the infants first two years was significantly reduced compared 
with the placebo group. Researchers concluded that maternal allergies were 
a positive risk for eczema in the infant. 
	Homeopathy for Children and Babies
	It is time that parents and physicians seek safe, natural and effective 
alternatives to conventional, potentially harmful drugs. Homeopathic medicine 
for children is one such alternative. Learn about homeopathic medicine for childhood 
ailments such as bed wetting, chicken pox, measles, colds, flus, teething, 
constipation, sore throats, earaches, diarrhea, and much more.